Some Old Thoughts About a New Problem

There is an old saying, often attributed to Confucius: “The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago; the second-best time is right now!” For most advisors this is a painful reminder: on any given day there are hundreds of choices that can be made, but only a few that will produce real, long-term benefits.

The Built-in Challenge of Working with “Next Generation” Clients

A perfect example of this dynamic tension is how an advisor decides to work with “next generation” investors. There is no more important task for an advisor than keeping their current clients happy and engaged. Engaging the children and grandchildren of your best clients is of equal importance for the future, except for the problem that those efforts produce no real, immediate benefits today.

This decision-making vulnerability is built into the advisor’s role: there is always a tension between the immediate tasks that an advisor must do to stay in business and the strategic activities that the advisor can or should do to insure the long-term viability of their business. It is emotionally easy to respond to an urgent request from your biggest client. It is far more emotionally challenging to allocate time to building relationships that may not pay off for years—or even decades.

For every advisor, working with the top 10 clients in their business is an emotionally clear and obvious “must do.” These clients pay the bills and are highly desirable to other advisors. They represent a huge risk of loss. They are hard to find, and require time, effort and energy to keep. They are top of mind all the time.

But their children are not top of mind. Even when they are engaged with the business, they are often near the bottom of the lead advisor’s priority list. They have the potential to be important to the advisor in the future, but they do not represent a must-do today. That is why many next-generation clients say they have not met with their parents' advisor. And, in cases where they have met a member of the advisor’s team, they are working with a junior associate. It is hard for the business to see these “clients” as important when there are so many more immediate tasks at hand that have short-term consequences.

It’s no wonder that a 2024 survey1 from Dynasty Financial Partners found that only 34% of children stay with their parents’ advisor.